- I love to read, write, play pool & help others. I love being with my 3 blessings! I have a gorgeous daughter, Meggan~23 and 2 handsome sons. Brian~20 and Joshua~16. I wouldn't be anything without my babies. They're my greatest accomplishment! I pray my words, pictures, and what I post about give you encouragement and help inspire you to love deeper and believe there is a life out there for you. You need to have faith and believe in YOU.I married a Soldier so I was a Military Wife for 17 yrs. and now we're divorced. I am part German, Irish, English, and Ukraine. Trying to focus on my writing. I'm working on my Memoir and Suspense Romance Novels. I want my story of abuse and my addictions to help other woman and teens. I went through a lot of trauma growing up and still found joy and I know you can too!
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Be thankful for every chaos chaser who causes you heartbreak. They are sure to bring you stress, uncertainty, lack of clarity and heartbreak. However, they are gifts. They come into your life so YOU can use THEM. The heartbreak caused by them comes into your life to reveal another layer of who you are to yourself, and then it leaves. The purpose is to shake you up and tear you apart at your core so you can see where you are still over-doing, over-caretaking and under-caring for yourself. These heartbreaks reveal to you your personal obstacles and emotional habits that you need to transform and conquer. These people will break your heart wide open, for the divine purpose of you being able to let the new light in. The hurt they cause can make you so desperate and out of control that you have no choice but to completely change your life. You have to take it on the chin like a champ, stand up, walk elegantly away and leave. You must have enough self-love and respect to know when it is time to walk away and never ever look back again. Once these people reveal themselves you finally get to see who they really are and who they have always been lurking as character underneath the façade. When they let this leak, your heart will break but this is your saving grace. The heartbreak is your mirror of where you need to heal. Did you love too innocently? Did you take them at face value? Did you have intuitions you ignored? Did you do too much for them? Did you love too much? Now take the questions, answer them, learn, grow and change.