tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52365418882824255372024-03-05T21:56:56.257-05:00My Writing and my Life Interrupted. When I was 12, I had a desire to write, which was interrupted by: My home life, self esteem, drugs and alcohol, later on marriage and kids. Life got in the way. I started drinking and using cocaine at a young age. At 19 I had my baby girl and met a Soldier who I married later and had two sons. I got divorced after 17 yrs. There is beauty in the world, you just need to find it. I am now working on my Memoir knowing my honesty of what I've been through can help other woman.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.comBlogger121125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-81038676460656075392015-09-03T17:33:00.001-04:002015-09-03T17:46:39.704-04:00Addicts don't want to
And there you have it! Finally a place who understands addicts and tries to help them instead of putting them in jail. Addicts aren't criminals. The fear of withdraw and needing the drug causes them to steal. The power of drugs are that strong. Addicts don't want to steal, shoot up, prostitute, or desire the drugs. It's how powerfully addicting drugs are. That is why you have to separate the Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-24520996898554905832015-04-02T15:10:00.001-04:002015-09-28T18:05:01.181-04:00
extroverts, it’s us again, the introverts.
9 Rules for Being with us introverts
You know, those quiet friends of yours who listened to your tearful story about the fight you had with your boyfriend — without interrupting even once? Those friends who let youAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-71330376435592023872015-03-28T15:32:00.001-04:002015-03-28T15:32:44.107-04:00
Well, still trying to deal with the loss of my sister. I just feel like I've lost so much in the past few years. Life is very hard right now as I'm trying to get on disability because I can't work with my health issues. It's all from the car accident I was in and getting Fibromyalgia. I have good days and bad but I just started back to my exercises and toning and I know that will help me.
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-8535782870470985662015-03-04T14:15:00.000-05:002015-03-04T14:22:32.848-05:00
My sister, my best friend passed away on Feb. 14th. I'm still in shock. I just look at her photos and shake my head in disbelief. I still can't believe my best friend is gone. She was all I had left. These past 2 years have been so bad. I lost both my dogs and then my third one I had to leave with the boys. I lost my kids. I lost my marriage of 17 years. I lost my house and furniture. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-51278497949342626032015-01-20T19:28:00.001-05:002015-01-20T19:28:57.642-05:00
It's a little late but I got to see my son!! My oldest son, Brian came to see me for New Years! He spent New Years Eve with me! Nobody knows how happy that made me after not seeing my sons for about 2 years. You think they would be encouraged to go see their mother. My baby is 17 and he's so tall. That was the greatest New Year I've had ever. I enjoyed him being here. My dad's tradition isAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-5174000505976220102015-01-15T09:20:00.001-05:002015-01-15T09:20:25.528-05:00
Don't be afraid to be who you are. I was crippled with depression and anxiety for years and my low self-esteem kept me from writing this Memoir. Still does cripple me but not as bad. I was so afraid to let people see the real me, but I have a story to tell that if it only helps one woman than I did my job. Don't let other peoples opinions scare you into not being yourself or not doing Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-89427868776745730922014-12-14T15:34:00.000-05:002014-12-14T15:34:32.335-05:00
The more I work with women around their relationship issues and the more deeply I spiral into the shadow layers of my own psyche, the stronger my conviction becomes in the following statement: the need to nag is embedded into the historic and genetic code of most women. I say this not with judgement or criticism but with great love for my half of the human race and an instinctual Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-73858972490558066582014-11-05T13:54:00.002-05:002014-11-05T13:54:48.846-05:005 Lies Addicts All Addicts Tell Themselves
As an addict, life is a game of survival. Day after day is dedicated to avoiding withdrawals and hiding the outward signs of chemical dependency. On top of that, feeding an addiction means developing an arsenal of psychological defense mechanisms. Simply put, addicts have to learn how to shield themselves from the reality of their behaviors.
Whether you label these defense mechanisms Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-56480929961053367272014-10-21T15:31:00.000-04:002015-09-27T15:26:41.558-04:00Loving Ourselves First
If someone leaves you and you just can't deal with being alone, that's the first clue that you don't love yourself. We get into relationships and give our all to it and nothing to ourselves. I mean it's OK to be upset and miss him for awhile but not long. It's good to give and love but you need a healthy amount. You need to come first to yourself. If your Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-70652906046138928362014-10-13T15:54:00.001-04:002014-10-13T15:55:08.938-04:00
5 Relationship Secrets for Emotionally Empathic Souls
By Judith Orloff MD
Loneliness gets to some more than others. But why it hangs on isn’t always apparent when read by traditional medical eyes. In my medical practice and workshops I’ve been struck by how many sensitive, empathic people who I call “emotional empaths” come to me, lonely, wanting a romantic partner, yet remaining Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-56075692093204711372014-10-06T12:24:00.001-04:002014-10-06T12:25:31.782-04:00
I miss my babies!!! I can't deal with this whole inside me from not seeing my kids. They live 3 hrs. from me and I don't drive yet. I've had issues with driving since my bad car accident. I'm getting my license so I can go see them. You think my ex-husband would pay for them to come see me. You think he would tell them that they need to be with their mother. My daughter told me that Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-51809922126906762262014-10-06T09:36:00.002-04:002015-01-13T18:05:18.996-05:00
I've had the mental illness Depression and anxiety since I was young. It's been with me since I was a little girl. I was diagnosed with Bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder. That doesn't make me crazy. I don't have bouts of being crazy either. Well, I guess I have had my moments of flipping out on abusive boyfriends and screaming at my kids. I hated myself for that. It was when I Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-7058066792221198672014-09-29T13:45:00.001-04:002014-09-29T13:45:14.159-04:0010 Marriage Tips Every Wife Needs to Hear
I’m now in my third marriage. When people learn this fact about me, their reaction is usually pretty awkward. It’s almost as if they’re waiting for me to be embarrassed by my admission. While going through two divorces was some of the most painful times of my life, I’d only feel ashamed if I’d gone through it without being able to say I’ve learned a thing or two. My husband Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-53458230132870375442014-09-26T14:48:00.001-04:002014-09-26T14:48:11.299-04:00
How to Love a Girl who Writes.
Via Kate Bartolottaon Apr 28, 2013
Much has been made of dating a girl who reads, but what of the other side of that coin?
For a girl who writes is a double-threat: she is well read, yet creates worlds of her own as well. If you find a girl who writes—find her charming, wish to court her—there are a few things you should know.
Be prepared for Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-31533664575612937712014-09-26T08:31:00.002-04:002014-09-26T08:31:52.641-04:00What it Means to Love a Libra.
Relephant reads:
How to Love a Girl Who Juices
How to Love a Girl who Writes.
Date a Girl Who Practices Hot Yoga.
“We love the things we love for what they are.” ~ Robert Frost
A Libra longs for partnership, it is her heart’s forever-wish; but to love a Libra, you must love her completely.
A Libra will need space; she’ll need freedom to be who she is in any given Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-5411150191378776512014-09-26T07:37:00.002-04:002014-09-26T07:37:19.894-04:00How to Love a Girl Who Doesn’t Know How to Be Loved.
Whether we know it or not, we’ve all met some form of the typical “Miss Independent.”
Some of us know her better than others; some of us claim that title ourselves.
She’s the self-sufficient, somewhat mysterious go-getter with big dreams and an even bigger heart, though not everyone sees it at first glance.
Some might see her as cold and distant, because she needs a significant amount of Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-63275179283932469082014-09-25T13:51:00.002-04:002014-09-25T13:51:42.794-04:00Disover the truth about Coconut Oil and it's many health benifits
Coconut oil has been a common sight in Asian and Pacific households for ages, but why is it that today all over the world the health benefits of coconut oil are being rediscovered? Did you know that there was a time in history when western countries, like the US and Canada, were huge consumers of coconut oil? But what happened back then?
How Did Coconut Oil Disappear From Our Kitchen Tables
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-14595334804806516102014-09-25T13:39:00.000-04:002014-09-25T13:39:04.560-04:00How to get rid of skin bumps
Red itchy bumps on the skin are a common problem, they can be annoying and painful. This condition is known as Keratosis pilaris. These bumps can happen on any part of the skin, however the back, arms, thighs, and buttocks are some areas that are more prone to it. Statistics say that approximately half of the world population suffers from these bumps.
The exact Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-87645686728981176992014-09-22T14:44:00.002-04:002014-09-22T14:44:10.629-04:00
"Drugs have a power that you just can't believe"
I just went to my cousins funeral today. He was in jail for stealing for his drugs. I just want to say that this is so sad how drugs have that deep a hold of us. Sometimes we just can't overcome that powerful voice inside of us that makes us go after that drug like others would go after their new job or position Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-53877672290710285282014-09-17T15:05:00.000-04:002014-09-17T15:05:08.745-04:00
"Things I've learned"
I grew up with an older sister and younger brother. I was the middle child. The black sheep as they call us. I was a slow learner in school and they of course got good grades. I Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-80172968963759208592014-09-12T11:10:00.001-04:002014-09-12T13:23:32.218-04:00
"I Need More"
Don't get to close, it's dark inside, that's where my demons hide
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-56642488714790898622014-09-11T13:16:00.004-04:002014-09-11T15:12:03.814-04:007 Steps to Inner Fulfillment
Many women feel overworked and under-appreciated. The simple life doesn't exist for us as we enter the work force, raise our children, commit to our partners and make our own way. However, this doesn't have to be experienced as exhausting or somehow unfair. Embrace all of this opportunity It is amazing how much stronger and capable we are then we ever knew. Look at the fact that no matter whatAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-5056793504488849112014-09-09T15:20:00.001-04:002014-09-09T15:20:15.612-04:00
"Faith For Dark Days"
When dark days come-and they come to us all-
 Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-18762342634711479632014-09-09T11:12:00.001-04:002014-09-09T11:12:28.106-04:00
An Early Warning that Conflict Might Turn Dangerous
Your body senses danger better than your head.
Published on April 8, 2009 by Steven Stosny, Ph.D. in Anger in the Age of Entitlement
I get many emails from people in high-conflict marriages who want to know if they are being abused. First I advise them that definitions are not the issue - the only thing that Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5236541888282425537.post-19673474861870212042014-09-09T10:41:00.000-04:002014-09-09T10:42:27.262-04:00
You’re So Needy
BY WAYNE CONNELL1 COMMENT
“You could get better if you wanted to.” “You should just try harder.” “You’re being lazy.” “You need to be more motivated.” “You’re so needy.”
Have you ever heard any of these comments from friends and family members? Have you ever said one of these to someone living with illness or pain? Often when we come across someone who says he has Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11701999191820895588noreply@blogger.com0